how to find your style + the confidence to wear it


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  • Hong rannn
    Hong rannn  15 minutes back


    • Afton Apodaca
      Afton Apodaca  16 minutes back

      it's so true about pinterest

      • Kura
        Kura  22 minutes back

        But what do I do if im ugly and absolutely nothing works on me, so my wardrobe looks like 50 shades of grey, and i cant even figure out my own damn personality?!

        • flower's gacha channel
          flower's gacha channel  34 minutes back

          So my style is big sweatshirts short denim shorts and sneakers i never thought about it so thank you

          • The Amarie Show
            The Amarie Show  2 hours back

            Hi uhm save all of us and make your own clothing brand

            • S a v a h a n n a
              S a v a h a n n a  3 hours back

              I just think my body's too oddly proportion to dress really nice

              • Heer Banga
                Heer Banga  3 hours back

                lovvve this video, thx ashley

                • Nic Same
                  Nic Same  4 hours back

                  Tips on how to pose for pictures please because I'm such an awkward potato in front of the cam

                  • Farah S
                    Farah S  4 hours back

                    I literally got someone asked me about how to be confident in wearing heels for everyday life because she really wants to try it but afraid to get judged, then I gave her your advice. You’re really helpful ashley I love you ❤️

                    • taekookies
                      taekookies  5 hours back

                      for the people with lotsa styles don't let it confuse you!

                      I always say my style is that I don't have a style, I just wake up and think hmm what vibe am I feeling today and then I wear what shows that, and just like my emotions change so does my style and outfits and that's completely okay, even if I look like seventeen different people each week

                      • dying inside y'all
                        dying inside y'all  6 hours back

                        My three distinct styles are Billie Eilish, airport fashion and Black Widow vibes but it’s so hard to find clothes like that... :( anybody know any shops or sites that sell these kinda clothes?

                        • Urban Arielle
                          Urban Arielle  7 hours back

                          I don't think I'll ever find "my" style. There are just too many different styles I like and feel comfortable in. (Basically everything that doesn't require highheels xD).

                          • carlotta D.
                            carlotta D.  7 hours back

                            Gosh I love you. Thanks to you I have some inspiration in my life again 🌸🥰

                            • Camillia Alexander
                              Camillia Alexander  8 hours back

                              How do you choose the right colour for your skin tone ? In terms of wardobe , makeup and hair dye ?

                              • Maria Victoria Burta
                                Maria Victoria Burta  12 hours back

                                3:14 *goes and clicks the like button*

                                • gabriela 123
                                  gabriela 123  12 hours back

                                  New subscriber!!

                                  • Skitty
                                    Skitty  12 hours back

                                    help. The clothes I feel most confident in are pajamas/hobo clothes

                                    • Temos Life
                                      Temos Life  14 hours back

                                      I went shopping today and got dress pants to replace jeans- my suster told me i wa
                                      S trying to hard and i was going to return everthing tommorow morning. Thank ashley you stopped that from ahppening;)

                                      • Name Surname
                                        Name Surname  14 hours back

                                        I am a guy with a mustache and beard and my sense of style is more gender nonconforming. you're very right when you say that it takes courage to change up your style and wear what you really want to. when I dress the way I want to there is a lot of fear associated with it because I have no idea who I'm going to encounter/what people are going to think when I wear my more traditionally feminine clothing in public. it's not just a change of clothing, it's a change of mindset. it takes a lot to be comfortable in what you are wearing. I hope that by taking your advice and making a gradual change I can start to feel less self-conscious wearing the stuff I really like. I really want to show off my love of fashion and crafting the perfect look, but I don't know how appreciative the people around me will be...

                                        • Il- Ameron -lI
                                          Il- Ameron -lI  14 hours back

                                          fuck it, i’m buying a bunch of scarves and black and white clothing

                                          • ijustpostcomments
                                            ijustpostcomments  15 hours back

                                            Gingham... is the only pattern I don't like 😅

                                            • Chimmery Elle
                                              Chimmery Elle  15 hours back

                                              Are u a Filipina? :)

                                              • Eli de Araceli
                                                Eli de Araceli  15 hours back

                                                idk if that is swear or q really bqd way yo put highlither...

                                                • Aidan B
                                                  Aidan B  16 hours back

                                                  This is such a good video oml

                                                  • Lexy Taylor
                                                    Lexy Taylor  16 hours back

                                                    Thank you 💕💕💕

                                                    • Maureen Lawless
                                                      Maureen Lawless  16 hours back

                                                      The thing I did to get confidant in my fashion choices was finally say " yes, this sweater with the weird ass gigntic leather Chevrons on the chest is hideous,, and I love it" and honestly it was very affirming, to be able to say "this thing is awful and I love it" and honestly that is the positivity I need in my life 👏👏👏

                                                      • Nandini Mehta
                                                        Nandini Mehta  17 hours back

                                                        Shut up UR GORG

                                                        • Cream Puff
                                                          Cream Puff  17 hours back

                                                          My wardrobe is just full of t shirts

                                                          • Orleans BeGole
                                                            Orleans BeGole  18 hours back

                                                            6:04 ig we’re becoming tumblr with the blurring 😔 rip

                                                            • Chillona
                                                              Chillona  19 hours back


                                                              • Its Mia Not Mya
                                                                Its Mia Not Mya  19 hours back

                                                                okay so what if i dont have money and if i did i have no way at all to go to clothing stores. literally not even like goodwills

                                                                • lps_ peachieshiba
                                                                  lps_ peachieshiba  19 hours back

                                                                  I have a baby face and if I wear something I like I look like a baby that’s wearing teen clothes

                                                                  • Kristen
                                                                    Kristen  20 hours back

                                                                    literally have always wanted to wear heels to school so thank s for the advice ashley senior year better watch out for me !!!!

                                                                    • Orleans BeGole
                                                                      Orleans BeGole  20 hours back

                                                                      ,,,,,,and the money

                                                                      • Lovely
                                                                        Lovely  20 hours back

                                                                        omg I really really needed this. I’ve been trying my hardest to try changing up my style but...of course it’s hard since I don’t have much confidence in myself. I’m still kinda growing and stuff like this, like girly cool and nice stuff isn’t something I’m very confident in wearing since...yeah. I’m scared when people tell me their opinions about what I wear or about who I am. I usually like “brushing it off” to make it seem like I don’t care but I do.

                                                                        You see, I’m 13 years old and it’s clear that when your in middle school, people are BOUND to say something but as sensitive as I am, I take it too personally and beat myself down so much where I lose every ounce of confidence and courage and the smallest drop of likeness of my own facial features. But- eh that’s middle school...

                                                                        But anyways, it’s super hard to even try changing up my style- I don’t even feel comfortable enough to tell my mom “HEy LETS GO SHOPPING!” or go to a place where there’s a lot of people. I also tend to compare myself to others and it’s started to get out of control now-

                                                                        ....welp/..but now that I have this video to help me out..I feel sooo much better. I’m going to use these steps into becoming a better person through fashion. Thank you!!!

                                                                        • Maïlys
                                                                          Maïlys  21 hours back

                                                                          Love from France 💕 keep doing like this it’s so coooool I love your style, your personality and your huge inspiration

                                                                          • Lillian Aguirre
                                                                            Lillian Aguirre  22 hours back

                                                                            So I tracked my clothes like you said and I have names my aesthetic "depressed rainbow" and when I'm done adjusting my wardrobe, I'll move on to my room

                                                                            • Aus Mendoza
                                                                              Aus Mendoza  22 hours back

                                                                              I'm in love with the fact that your speaking speed is super fast asfkfmsl your content is so amazing and you are a lovely person, please keep going on this

                                                                              • Sofia Sandfeld
                                                                                Sofia Sandfeld  23 hours back

                                                                                there is this girl in my class (who is also one of my great friends) that i respect so much. She always wears something weird and original, and even though people give her looks, she is so happy about her style and confident when wearing the clothes she likes. I wish i could wear what ever i want, but i will never be confident enough to do that.

                                                                                • Ophelia
                                                                                  Ophelia  23 hours back

                                                                                  Hey, I am really struggling finding vintage inspired, fashionable and trendy clothing that is good quality. Most of the time I order stuff online and find that the quality is just really bad. Of course my budget isn't too big either... If you have any suggestions please help?

                                                                                  • Ophelia
                                                                                    Ophelia  23 hours back

                                                                                    Also international shipping? Thanks:)

                                                                                • laura W
                                                                                  laura W  24 hours back

                                                                                  cool cool but to find my personal style when my office (where i spend 5/7 days in clothes) doesn't even let us wear shorts or skirts higher than 3 inches above the knee or shirts that show off your shoulders???

                                                                                  • do wang
                                                                                    do wang  24 hours back

                                                                                    i love you

                                                                                    • KatyandAllie
                                                                                      KatyandAllie  24 hours back

                                                                                      I'm watching this and I just got a notification from instagram saying "Forever 21, Garage, and others shared 12 posts". How do they know. I'm scared.

                                                                                      • farah hussein
                                                                                        farah hussein  1 days back

                                                                                        Leggings, T-shirt,and cardigan. 🤷🏽‍♀️

                                                                                        • Britt Morsink
                                                                                          Britt Morsink  1 days back

                                                                                          i am having a 'bestdressed' marathon

                                                                                          • Phoebe Althea Shinnea Chun

                                                                                            I LOVE YOUR HAIR

                                                                                            • Hayoung Cho
                                                                                              Hayoung Cho  1 days back

                                                                                              Everyone else: You do you

                                                                                              Ashley: Do as you please


                                                                                              • hana bye
                                                                                                hana bye  1 days back

                                                                                                “fashionable disaster” lmaooo can i cop that for my bio